Ever felt like God was far away, uninterested, or worse yet, that He had abandoned you? You’re not alone. In Psalm 13, David expresses the raw emotion of wondering where God is when he needs Him the most. Far from being unspiritual, cries of lament create a dialogue of honesty with God that actually moves us closer to Him. God never wants us to fake it. Whether we feel God’s presence or not, we can, through faith, find Him even in our deepest disappointments.

Discussion Questions

A lament is a complaint. Is complaining to God allowed? Under what circumstances might God welcome a complaint from people who are talking to Him in prayer?

In Psalm 13, David expresses his lament toward God. Read verses 1-2. Four times David asks the question, “how long?” What feelings are expressed in these four questions?

In verses 3-4 David moves from questions to God to requests of God. What is David asking in these verses? Can you describe a personal experience that resembles what you see in these verses?

Verses 5-6 describe a turning point in Psalm 13. What change in David do you see in these verses? What choice is he making? How have you moved from despair to hope?

Sometimes our despair begins when we doubt the goodness of God. How do you trust the goodness of God when His timetable seems so different from yours?

The practice of gratitude can be a powerful remedy to despair and discouragement. Take a few minutes right now, and list 10 things you’re grateful for. Get as specific as you can. It’s a worthy exercise!

Further Reading

Songs from the Heart Reading Plan Week 3

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I Take Refuge in You

It seems like we spend a lot of our time searching. We chase money, relationships, fame, and plenty of other things, hoping that some of it will deliver a sense of goodness, security, and joy. But those searches ultimately leave us wanting. We tend to forget that...

Songs from the Heart Reading Plan Week 2

WEEK TWO Songs of Confidence Have you ever been awake in the middle of the night feeling overwhelmed or afraid? When David and the other psalmists were feeling this way, they expressed their unfailing confidence in the goodness, power and deliverance of God. This week...

You Are Above All

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Songs from the Heart Reading Plan week 1

WEEK ONE Songs of Praise Majestic. Glorious. Excellent. Perfect. True. Gracious. Merciful. Awesome. The Psalms of Praise help put into God’s greatness into words. This week as you read through these songs that worship God for who He is, may you be filled with awe and...